Ben and I are going through marriage counseling with Pastor Chris and Pryscilla. He suggested that we both read the book called, "So You Are Getting Married," as a discussion point for some of the key issues in relationships. One chapter that we stumbled upon talked about events in our lives that may cause relational issues in marriage. The topics are Loss of a job, Birth of a Child, and Moving to a New Community, all of which we are struggling with right now. Actually, we are not having a baby but we are discussing when we would like to start a family. What is hard is deciding on a plan for the both of us in the next few years. A big problem with that is deciding on who is going to sacrifice what and how we can come up with a decision that will make us both happy. Right now, I am really annoyed at myself for having school to finish still and then one year of internship. Ben wants to go to seminary and we want to start a family one or two years after marriage. Somethings has got to give and I have no clue as to what.