I just figured out the secret to a happy life. For everytime you feel sad, say to yourself, "it's not personal, it's just business" and it should make you feel a whole lot better. Let me give you some sceneros here. Let's say....a person is rude to you for no apparent reason. You say, "it's not personal, it's just her business" right? Um...another one, if you get get ignored by a certain someone, again, "it's not personal, that person has a lot of unfinish business." Oh oh...here's another one, if you find yourself stressing over conflicts or problems of other people, just say to yourself, "this is none of my business and I am going to stay the heck out of the way." See how simple life is? hehe.